Your sweetheart calls you by another's name. His eyes linger too long on your best friend. He talks with excitement about a girl at work. And the fire catches. Jealousy - that sickening combination of possessiveness, suspicion, rage, and humiliation - can overtake your mind and threaten your very core as you contemplate your rival. -Helen Fisher Jealousy
You can get into a very fancy car and know everything about the engine, but when you drive in that car, you feel that rush. In the same way, I think the more you know about love, the more you can enjoy it. And knowing about your personality type, who you are and what kind of person you're dealing with gives you a great leg up. -Helen Fisher Car
Any kind of novelty or excitement drives up dopamine in the brain, and dopamine is associated with romantic love. -Helen Fisher Romantic
The reason you take antidepressants is to feel calm. And romantic love is not calm - it's elation, it's mood swings, and you're killing all that when you take the drug. -Helen Fisher Romantic
A lot of people head into courtship looking for fireworks. Don't pass up a chance by dumping someone after a first date because you don't feel the fireworks. The fireworks can happen at any time and be maintained. -Helen Fisher Chance
A Rolex watch or an expensive car are the things guys often use to show status, wealth, and basic desirability. -Helen Fisher Car
Despite the myth that men are less committed, they are predisposed to desire marriage. -Helen Fisher Marriage
Both sexes like the exercise and challenge of sports, but for men it's also a basic display behavior for impressing and winning a mate. -Helen Fisher Sports
Men have a psychological need to show off their courage and strength. When he sees you talking to another guy, that instinct kicks in and he jumps to protect you and prove he's worthy of your love. -Helen Fisher Strength
Until recently, we regarded love as supernatural. We were willing to study the brain chemistry of fear and depression and anger but not love. -Helen Fisher Anger
Today, most women are surrounded by ingenious gadgets. They don't grow the peas or raise the chicken that they serve for dinner; instead they hunt and gather in the grocery store. They go through catalogs or department stores to buy clothes instead of shearing sheep, carding wool, and weaving cloth for skirts and coats and blankets. -Helen Fisher Women
Your sweetheart calls you by another's name. His eyes linger too long on your best friend. He talks with excitement about a girl at work. And the fire catches. Jealousy - that sickening combination of possessiveness, suspicion, rage, and humiliation - can overtake your mind and threaten your very core as you contemplate your rival. -Helen Fisher Best
Anthropologists have found evidence of romantic love in 170 societies. They've never found a society that did not have it. -Helen Fisher Romantic
Games are the way we keep romance alive. They're based in human hardwiring. Playing hard-to-get or leaving a little to the imagination allows the woman to be wooed and appreciated and the man to be challenged and intrigued. -Helen Fisher Imagination
Blushing is thought to be linked to increased levels of norepinephrine in the brain, which may be associated with romantic feelings. It signals that we are interested and excited, which is attractive to men. -Helen Fisher Romantic
Jealousy can even be good for love. One partner may feel secretly flattered when the other is mildly jealous. And catching someone flirting with your beloved can spark the kind of lust and romance that reignites a relationship. -Helen Fisher Relationship
Natural beauty really entices men. They will tell you this time and time again, and studies consistently prove it. -Helen Fisher Beauty
Why do we feel jealousy? Therapists often regard the demon as a scar of childhood trauma or a symptom of a psychological problem. And it's true that people who feel inadequate, insecure, or overly dependent tend to be more jealous than others. -Helen Fisher Jealousy
In general, men are wired to notice obvious signs that convey interest in mating - a warm smile, for example - and ignore other subtleties, like if your lipstick is faded. -Helen Fisher Smile
