You don't go around grieving all the time, but the grief is still there and always will be. Nigella Lawson Sympathy
You don't go around grieving all the time, but the grief is still there and always will be. Nigella Lawson Time
Also, in a funny way, if you have been happily married there are no unresolved areas, nothing to prove to yourself after the other dies. Nigella Lawson Funny